Life is so wonderful,and I am so Inspired

I am having such a great time in my life the days are just to short.I want to go every where do everything, eat all the different foods out there, smile at as many people as i can,meet as many people as i can.Tell my wife how much i love her every day, I try to make it at least 100 times she thinks it funny, I love to see her laugh anyway. i hug my son and daughter so much when they see me coming they run. not really just kidding, because even if they did i would chase them down and hug them anyway. I love waking up in the morning because it gives me another chance to experience other wonderful things, it’s a brand new day there will never be another day like it, so i live it to the fullest. I get to smile and laugh and see birds and animals and trees, and lakes and oceans and my favor,is other human beings.People are magic,but most of us take ourselves to serious to see the magic that we have. I use mine, for instance just by being nice as i can to everyone i meet ,you can make people happy and smile and be nice to, not everyone but 99% of the people you meet, my secret, you have to be color blind ,if you haven’t figured it out already there’s only one race it the human race. I am having so much fun it’s like i am on a fun ride.I wish i could share this feeling with everyone. i can’t wait to get to work tomorrow and see my co-workers,some of my co-workers often ask me am always happy and i always say the same thing,we only get to do this life thing once and i going to make sure every minute i am here i going to have ball. Cheers everyone.

 

Let’s get rich I have an Idea,but we need each others help.

I know this may sound a little crazy, but hear me out, the way i see it most of us are not rich ,not even close and if your like me ,working an 8 to 5 job, it don’t look like that’s going to change anytime soon. Check this out the top 10% of the rich in country owns 75% of the wealth, and the the other 25% is divided up between the rest of us.Where does that leave you,working for them 8 to 5 building their dream instead of yours .Look i have nothing against the rich their great role models if we just do what they do, meaning most of their money is in stock or real estate. for the most part they use other rich peoples money to borrow and invest . and they both get richer. for example if a owner of a sports team wants to build a new stadium they don’t use all their money , they get other investors to invest with them for a percentage, and maybe borrow the rest from some lending place. my point is we as the other 25% of the wealth in this country if we put just a very small part of our money together we can buy something that makes up rich.we start off small like a income producing office building or a storage or buy a few depending on how much money we can raise. the great thing about it we don,t have to quit our jobs now, (until we great rich smile) and you just put into the pot what you can afford.Weather it’ts 5$ or 5000$ who cares,were going to split the profits equally, we don’t have to be greedy .it’s about help changing each others lives .I heard a quote once that said ,if you help others get what they want you can accomplish anything. we are that 25% . I writing this to see if there is anyone else out there who maybe interested in getting out of that 25%. if this interest you let me hear your comments , we as working class have resources ,we just haven’t caught on, we have to put them together to pull each other up, just like the rich do, thanks,

How to break any addiction,if you really, really want to:

First of all, I want to start out by saying like most of us, I had  a bad addiction i had to break myself, What that addiction was is not important.What is important,is that you know i know what depths you fall too.And the heart aches and heart breaks.and the destruction of your life,and the lost of friends and family,the lost trust people had in you.the loneliness feeling you alway have,and the million times you tell yourself you going to quit,just to see yourself fall right back into the same old thing.and the lies you have to tell to try to cover up your addiction,which you think are fooling people,but your not. The hiding the sneaking around.and seeing your life revolve around an addition.Now there are some addictions that people are able to manage better than others,for instance smoking, or over eating,shopping.you get my point there are hundreds of more addictions that we wish we didn’t have, that are causing destruction in our life’s, now or in the future, when they catch up to us and they will, believe me they will.by the way every addiction we have people talk about them behind your back,either they make fun of you or feel sorry for you.either way it’s not good.Now you know i know how it is to be addicted to something, by the way my addition was a 10 on a scale of one to ten.Now all that being said, let’s talk about how we get better.break the addiction.First of all you have to understand what you have,and contrary to what these so called experts say,what you have is not a disease, it is a addiction.let me repeat this AN ADDICTION IS NOT A DISEASE,IT’S AN ADDICTION.there is no magic pill you can take or serum you can inject to cure you.it took me years to figure that out, and when i did i was on  the road to recovery and haven’t looked back. Here’s how i did it.Most so called experts tell you first you have to admit you have a problem.Let me tell you people with addictions already know they have addictions and they have already admitted it to themselves.the problem comes in when they have to admit it to other people and they become defense about it and embarrassed .so they lie and won’t admit it. Now you know you have a problem, you have to make it small,you can’t think of it in terms of quitting or stopping forever,that makes the problem way to big to deal with.So by making it small it’s a lot easier to deal with.what i mean by making it small you have to break it down by the hour and day,instead of months and years.For example let’s taking smoking.by the way you can switch out what ever addiction you have with my smoking example.just don’t tell yourself i going to quit,that’s to big, tell yourself your going to quit for two hours.and just stop for those two hours.if you know you can stop longer than two hours great,make it a little longer. never ever make it longer than one day.there’s a big reason for that.you want to take small steps you know you can achieve.the key is you want to see the progress you done.now don’t tell yourself you stopping or quitting forever just the time you selected.Now when that two hours is over, or day whatever you chose just set another goal of the exact same time.Now here is the most important part,you have to keep saying this phrase to yourself. I MIGHT DO MY ADDICTION TOMORROW,BUT I WON’T DO IT TODAY. and when the day is over when you wake up, you say that phrase again.and if you find yourself getting weak during the day just keep repeating it.get through that day.The reason you tell yourself you might do your addiction tomorrow and not today is because you don’t want to put all that pressure of quitting forever on yourself,you giving your mind a small comfort zone it works.in about 7 or 8 days you’ll start forgetting to say that phrase.and you go through a day without even thinking about your addition.but don’t stop, just start saying it all over again, after about a month or so your mind will be trained not want that addiction anymore.because you been telling your mind you won’t do it today maybe tomorrow, and your mind will forever think it’s going to be tomorrow which of course never comes.by the way for the skeptics out there i dare you to try it for 4 days. you will be shocked  i promise. TO HAPPY DAYS

I’M BROKE,AND DON’T CARE

I HAVE BEEN BEATING MYSELF UP BECAUSE I AM SELF EMPLOYED AND BROKE ,I MEAN I’AM NOT TOTALLY BROKE I HAVE A FEW HUNDRED DOLLARS.BUT MY BILLS ARE DUE NEXT WEEK, I PROBABLY HAVE TO USE MY OVER DRAFT PROTECTION ON MY BANK ACCOUNT TO PAY MY RENT.I WAS ALL STRESSED OUT BECAUSE I DIDN’T WANT  MY FRIENDS TO KNOW, I’M SELF EMPLOYED, I SUPPOSE TO HAVE MONEY .THEN I STARTED TO THINK OF WAYS TO COME UP WITH SOME MONEY .BORROW FROM FRIENDS,FAMILY , I ALWAYS PAY BACK .BUT THATS NOT THE POINT. I DIDN’T WANT TO BE JUDGED FOR BEING BROKE.SO AS I WAS WALKING MY DOG, MR WIGGLES , IT JUST CAME TO ME I LOOKED DOWN AND I SAW MR WIGGLES JUST WALKING LOOKING AROUND WITHOUT A CARE IN THE WORLD.HE DIDN’T CARE IF I WAS BROKE.HE SEEMED AT PEACE WITH THE WORLD.AND AT THAT MOMENT, A CALM CAME OVER ME .I’M BROKE SO WHAT, I HAVE BEEN BROKE BEFORE .I HAVE HAD MONEY BEFORE,SPENT IT AND I WILL HAVE MONEY AGAIN.MY POINT IS IT’S OK TO BE BROKE SOME TIMES.I WAS JUST SO TIRED OF MY NET WORTH TIED TO WHO  I AM.AND HAVING TO EXPLAIN MY SITUATION TO MY FRIENDS.A BIG WEIGHT  HAS BEEN LIFTED OFF MY SHOULDERS.I ‘M SO HAPPY WITH MYSELF NOW, I CAN FOCUS ON BEING HAPPY. IT IS SO MUCH BETTER LIVING LIKE THIS .I DON’T CARE ONE BIT OF WHAT MY FRIENDS OR FAMILY THINK.I GOING TO GET RICH AT MY OWN PACE. WITH NO WORRIES. I ONLY HAVE ONE LIFE AND MONEY IS NOT GOING TO DICTATE MY HAPPNIESS. I’M BROKE AND I DON’T CARE, BY THE WAY CAN ANYONE HELP MY OUT WITH RENT (SMILE)…… LIVE YOUR LIFE BE HAPPY.

SIMPLY THE BEST,SHAMPOO & CONDITIONER

I JUST HAD TO TAKE A MINUTE AND TALK ABOUT A PRODUCT THAT IS WONDERFUL,IF YOU READ ANY OF MY POST I NEVER TALK ABOUT ANY PRODUCTS. I ONLY TALK ABOUT LIFE, THE GOOD AND THE BAD,BUT I HAVE FOUR SISTERS AND SINCE WE WERE KIDS I GUESS THEY HAVE USED EVERYTHING UNDER THE SUN FOR THEIR HAIR. THEY HAVE DIFFERENT TYPES OF HAIR OF COURSE,SOME LONG, SOME SHORT ,COLORED, PERMED .YOU GET MY POINT, ANYWAY WHAT EVER STYLE THEY WEAR THEIR HAIR ALWAYS LOOKS GREAT, SMELLS GOOD,AND AS A SINGLE GUY I FOUND MYSELF LOOKING AT OTHER WOMANS HAIR COMPARING TO THE WAY MY SISTERS HAIR LOOKED AND THEIR WAS A BIG BIG DIFFERENCE.NOT THAT THE OTHER LADIES HAIR LOOKED BAD ,BUT THERE WAS NO COMPARISON. ABOUT NOW I KNOW YOUR THINKING I AM TRYING TO SELL YOU SOMETHING, BELIEVE ME I AM NOT.I AM JUST SO AMAZED AT THIS PRODUCT.AND HERE’S WHY, I STARTED ASKING MY SISTERS QUESTIONS ABOUT THEIR HAIR AND THEY TOLD ME WHAT THEY WERE USING WAS ALL NATURAL.AND I SAID WHAT DIFFERENCE DOES THAT MAKE, AND THEY WENT ON TO EXPLAIN TO ME MOST OTHER HAIR CARE PRODUCTS HAVE ALL SORTS OF CHEMICALS AND BAD STUFF FOR YOUR HAIR, AND THAT MENODORA VI THE SHAMPOO & CONDITONER THEY USED WAS THE BEST OF THE BEST, A LITTLE BIT MORE COSTLY THEN MOST, BUT IT WAS WORTH IT.BY THE WAY .I HOPE MY SISTERS AREN’T MAD AT ME FOR TELLING THEIR SECRET.NOW IT’S OUT. JUST KIDDING,LOOK THE BOTTOM LINE YOU HAVE TO TRY THIS STUFF AT LEAST ONCE THEN YOU WILL BE TELLING EVERYONE  ABOUT IT TOO,IT COST ABOUT  TWENTY FIVE DOLLARS PER BOTTLE. HERES THEIR EMAIL– menodora12@yahoo.com     LET ME KNOW HOW YOU LIKE IT.  BY THE WAY I USE IT MYSELF.

Common sense,Not so common

I SAID I WASN’T GOING TO WRITE LIKE THIS,SHARE A GIFT I HAVE THE ABILITY TO SEE THINGS MOST OF US CAN’T, SAY  THINGS MOST OF US NEVER REALLY THINK ABOUT,.IN THIS AGE OF ALWAYS HAVING TO SAY THINGS THAT HAS TO FIT IN WHAT EVERY ONE ELSE THINKS. SO JUST THIS ONE TIME I AM GOING TO SAY WHAT I THINK NEEDS TO BE SAID, AND ALL OF US NEEDS TO HEAR WHETHER OR NOT PEOPLE WANT TO HEAR IT OR NOT.FIRST OF ALL MANKIND IS VERY VERY SICK,THE EARTH WE LIVE ON IS VERY SICK AND MOST OF US DON’T EVEN HAVE A CLUE,AND IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT I MEAN BY THAT THEN YOU HAVE NO CLUE.AS RACE OF PEOPLE WE ARE SO DIVIDED ,AND LOST .WHERE LIES AND FILTH ARE OUR SECOND NATURE.WHERE OUR STANDARD LINE IS, I DON’T CARE WHAT ANYONE DOES AS LONG AS IT DOESN’T AFFECT ME.AND THAT’S WHAT WE TELL OURSELFS IN ORDER TO GET ALONG,THE TRUTH IS THOUGH, EVERYTHING WE DO AFFECTS ALL OF US.WE USE WORDS LIKE TRUTH ,JUSTICE ,HONOR.WHO DO YOU KNOW WITH THESE THREE QUALITIES,NO ONE.CHEATERS,LIARS,THIEVES, UNDEPENDABLE  .WE SETTLE FOR PEOPLE WE CALL OUR FRIENDS ,BUT IN OUR HEARTS WE KNOW THEIR NOT.WE PUT UP WITH OUR SO CALLED MATES BECAUSE MOST OF US HAVE HAD SO MANY DIFFERENT ONES THAT THE ONE WE HAVE IS WHAT WE PLAN TO SETTLE FOR, BUT WERE ALWAYS LOOKING FOR SOMETHING BETTER.THE WEATHER IS GONE CRAZY FLOODS ,FIRES .EARTH QUAKES,TORNADOS, HURRICANES,. HEAT WAVES ,COLD SPELLS. YOU NAME IT AND IT’S GOING ON NOW.WE MARCH AND PROTEST AND EVERYTHING JUST KEEPS GETTING WORST .AND MOST OF US CAN’T PUT 2&2 TOGETHER.WOULDN’T IT BE NICE TO RUN INTO A DECENT HUMAN BEING,NO RACIST.,LIAR, CHEATER OR WHAT EVER CRAP WE HAVE TO OVERLOOK IN ORDER TO HAVE A FRIEND OR FAMILY MEMBER WE CALL CLOSE TO US.TRUTH IS BECAUSE THIS PLACE IS THE WAY IT IS WE HAVE TO SETTLE FOR SICK CRAP THAT WE HAVE MADE NORMAL TO US AND THAT’S SAD.BUT WHAT’S REALLY SAD IS WE WERE GIVEN THIS WONDERFUL PLANET,WITH WONDERFUL WILD LIFE ,OCEANS TREES, ETC, AND THE BEST PART OTHER HUMAN BEINGS JUST LIKE OURSELFS,AND WE CAN’T EVEN GET ALONG WITH MOST PEOPLE NOT OUR SAME COLOR.A HAND FULL OF US WHO ARE RICH REALLY RICH, FOUND WAYS TO HARDEN OUR HEARTS AND KEEP WHAT WE HAVE TO OURSELFS, WHILE WE WATCH OUR FOLLOW MAN BEG ON STREET CORNERS ,HOMELESS, ON DRUGS ,OUR KIDS KILLING EACH OTHER IN THE STREETS IN THESE BIG AND SMALL CITIES.AND THEY BECOME A FOOT NOTE, BECAUSE SOMEONE SAID IT WAS BLACK ON BLACK CRIME.BUT THOSE ARE KIDS WITH NOTHING TO DO AND NO HOPE,GROWN PEOPLE ARE NOT OUT THERE KILLING EACH OTHER IT’S KIDS AND THEY ARE OUR CHILDREN ALL OF OUR CHILDREN.AND BECAUSE OF THEIR COLOR THEY DON’T SEEM TO COUNT.WE HAVE REPUBLICANS, DEMOCRATES, INDEPENDENTS, HOW DIVIDED CAN YOU GET.COMMON SENSE IS NOT SO COMMON.

I WANT TO BE IN LOVE,DOES ANYONE UNDERSTANDS WHAT THAT MEANS

I SAID I WOULD NEVER LET ANYONE KNOW MY INTER FEELINGS ABOUT LOVE EXCEPT THE PERSON I WAS IN LOVE WITH,BUT SINCE I HAVEN,TFOUND NO ONE TO LOVE THE WAY I WANT AND I AM GETTING OLDER I THOUGHT I WOULD SHARE HOW I FELT AND MAYBE SOME ONE ELSE FELT LIKE I DO.FOR STARTERS EVERYONE I GUESS HAS THEIR OWN THOUGHTS OF WHAT LOVE IS SO ALL I CAN DO IS SHARE WHAT ME IDEAS OF WHAT I THINK LOVE SHOULD BE FOR ME.FIRST OF ALL TO ME LOVE MEANS WANTING TO BE AROUND THAT PERSON 24HRS A DAY,EVEN THOUGH THATS NOT POSSIBLE YOUR TWO MINDS ARE TOGETHER THINKING OF EACH OTHERALMOST EVRY MINUTE.LOVE IS BEING HAPPY JUST BEING AROUND THAT PERSON AND THE BOTH OF YOU FEEL THE SAME WAY.ITS LIKE YOUR ONE PERSON,WHEN YOU KISS ITS THE MOST WONDERFUL THINGYOU CAN DO,YOU CAN JUST KISS ANS KISS AND KISS,IT JUST GOES ON AND ON.WHEN YOU TAKE LONG WALKS IT JUST THE MOST WONDERFUL WALK YOU EVER HAD NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU DO IT.TALKING ON THE PHONE IS LIKE THE LIFE BLOOD OF THE RELATIONSHIP,YOU CAN TALK ALL NIGHT BUT YOU KNOW YOU HAVE TO SLEEP.AND WHEN YOU SLEEP THATS ALL YOU THINK ABOUT HOW WONDERFUL IT IS TO BE IN LOVE.I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR THAT KIND OF SPECIAL WOMAN MOST OF MY LIFE,I HAVE NOT GIVEN UP HOPE THEIR OUT THERE BUT.I JUST DONT KNOW IF WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR IS REAL OR JUST SOME KIND OF FANTASY I MADE UP THATS NOT REALLY POSSIBLE.I WANT SOMEONE THAT I ADORE EVERYTHING ABOUT EVEN THEIR FAULTS IF THEY HAVE ANY,LOVE DOES,NT LIVE IN THE PAST AND JUDGE WHAT YOU DONE BEFORE WE MET LOVE IS A HEALER IT HEALS ALL PROBLEMS,IT MAKES YOU FEEL SAFE.IT MAKE EVRY DAY IN YOUR LIFE WONDERFUL,IT,S NOT CHEAP,OR PETTY,IT DOESNT HAVE TO LIE BECAUSE YOU LIVE IN TRUTH.IT,S NOT JEALOUS,OR MEAN,OR ANY OF THOSE THINGS WE LIVE OUR LIVES IN EVERYDAY.BEING IN LOVE you don’t need friends to validate it.all I need is that wonderful person I think that’s out there and were looking for each other.she may be far away or living in the same town as me I don’t know but every day I see ladies and every now and than see one that may me the one but when I speak to her or she sees me she does not know who I am.so I know it is not her because I believe when we see each other well know it without saying a word.

I FOUND SOME MAGIC

I AM NOT A BIG HEALTH GUY, BUT I DO TRY TO WATCH WHAT I PUT IN MY BODY,FOR INSTANCE I DONT EAT A LOT OF FAST FOODS,I GO TO THE GYM A COUPLE TIMES A WEEK.I DONT DRINK ENERGY DRINKS OR SMOKE OR DO DRUGS.BUT I DO JUST ABOUT EVERYTHING ELSE.MY POINT,I HAVE A YOUNG DAUGHTER IN HIGH SCHOOL SHE HAS LONG HAIR SO SHE WASHES IT A LOT AND ONE DAY I ASKED HER WHAT KIND OF SHAMPOO SHE WAS USING AND SHE SHOWED ME THE BOTTLE.I THOUGHT WHAT A NICE LOOKING BOTTLE, SHE EVEN HAD THE CONDITIONER TO MATCH.AS I WAS LOOKING AT THE BOTTLE I LOOKED AT THE INGREDIENTS IN THEM I WAS SHOCKED ALL THE CHEMICALS THAT WAS IN THEM.SO I STARTED A LITTLE RESEARCH ON THE CHEMICALS.THEN I REMEMBERED MY DAUGHTER WOULD ALWAYS SAY SHE COULD NOT DO ANYTHING WITH HER HAIR,FRIZZY ENDS TO OILY IT WAS ALWAYS SOMETHING .AFTER RESEARCHING THE CHEMCIALS IN THE SHAMPOO AND CONDITIONER I WAS SUPRISED ALL HER HAIR DIDNT FALL OUT.SO LIKE A GOOD FATHER DOES I ASK HER IS ABOUT SOMETHING ALL NATURAL.SHE SAID SHE WOULD TRY ALL NATURAL STUFF IF I COULD FIND SOMETHING GOOD.WELL WHY DID SHE SAY THAT. I HAD A MISSION NOW.AT FIRST I FOUND SOME PRETTY GOOD STUFF,IT WAS OK SHE TRIED IT.SHE WASNT BLOWN AWAY BY ANYTHING I FOUND.THEN ONE DAY I WAS TAKING A TAXI CAB AND THE DRIVER WAS A WOMAN,THAT SURPRISE ME BECAUSE IT WAS A LADY YOU DONT RUN INTO THAT MUCH. ANYWAY SHE HAD THE MOST BEAUTIFUL HAIR STYLE IT WAS A SHORT HAIR STYLE,I THOUGHT HOW NICE. BUT WHAT REALLY GOT ME WAS HOW NICE IT SMELLED.SO I ASKED HER WHAT SHE USED AND SHE TOLD ME IT WAS FROM A SMALL COMPANY CALLED MENODORA VI.SHE GAVE ME THE WEB SITE WWW.MENODORA.BIZ I WHEN THE BROUGHT A COUPLE OF BOTTLES GAVE THEM TO MY DAUGHTER THE REST IS HISTORY.ALL HER FRIEND USES IT.THEY LOVE IT.I NEVER EVER TALK ABOUT PRODUCTS BUT I USED IT MYSELF ANDI LOVE IT AND I TELL EVERYONE I MEET ABOUT IT.SHOUT FROM NOUNTAIN TOPS THE PRODUCT IS GREAT.AND ITS 100% ALL NATURAL.THE SECERT IS OUT.WWW.MENODORA.BIZ YAHOO SEARCH YOU WILL FIND IT

THE MAGIC OF SELF ESTEEM, FIND IT IN YOU””

THE MAGIC OF SELF ESTEEM, FIND IT IN YOU''''.

THE MAGIC OF SELF ESTEEM, FIND IT IN YOU””

SELF ESTEEM IS ONE OF THOSE THINGS THAT ARE AS IMPORTANT FOR A PERSON AS MAYBE WATER IS FOR A PLANT THE MORE YOU HAVE THE BETTER YOU  GROW.BECAUSE THE WAY YOU FEEL ABOUT YOURSELF GOES A LONG WAY IN HOW YOUR LIVE WILL GO.HOW SUCCESSFUL YOU WILL BE, OR JUST HOW HAPPY YOU ARE IN YOUR LIFE . NOW EVERY ONE HAS SELF ESTEEM.THE QUESTION IS HOW MUCH DO YOU HAVE,IT,S LIKE MONEY EVERY ONE HAS SOME ,BUT HOW MUCH YOU HAVE DEFINES WITH YOU WILL BE ABLE TO DO.FOR EXAMPLE IF YOU HAVE VERY LOW SELF ESTEEM,YOU PROBABLY DON,T FEEL VERY GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF OR YOUR CHANCES OF BEING SUCCESSFUL.ON THE OTHER HAND IF YOU HAVE A LOT OF SELF ESTEEM YOU PROBABLY FEEL LIKE YOU CAN DO ANYTHING.THAT SAID, FINDING IT IN OURSELFS CAN OFTEN BE VERY HARD FOR US TO DO ON OUR OWN.SO I WANTED TO OFFER A FEW THINGS THAT CAN HELP YOU ON YOU WAY TO FINDING THE SELF ESTEEM IN YOU.THE FIRST THING YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND IS YOUR GOING TO NEED A LITTLE COURAGE,NOT A LOT AT LEAST WHEN YOUR STARTING OUT,BUT YOUR GOING TO NEED A LITTLE .THE REASON YOU,LL NEED A LITTLE COURAGE IS THAT YOU WILL HAVE TO GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE YOU BEEN IN ALL YOUR LIFE.NOW FIND SOME SMALL TASK FOR YOU TO DO THAT YOU NORMALLY DONT DO,FOR EXAMPLE IF YOU NEVER SPEAK UP, SPEAK UP ON SOMETHING SMALL ,IF YOU ARE AFRAID TO ASK SOMEONE TO DANCE AT A PARTY DO IT . THATS WHERE YOUR COURAGE COMES IN, THE KEY IS DON,T BE AFRAID TO BE A LITTLE EMBARRASSED,THATS THE KEY ,HIGH SELF ESTEEM PEOPLE DONT LET THAT INTO THE EQUATION.THEY JUST DO WHAT THEY WANT.STEP TWO. DONT TRY TO PLEASE PEOPLE BY CHANGING WHO YOUR ARE ,THATS A BIG MISTAKE.YOU,LL END UP BEING USED, AND FEEL EVEN WORST ABOUT YOURSELF WHEN IT,S OVER .PEOPLE WITH HIGH SELF ESTEEM WONT CHANGE FOR YOU THEIR TO HIGH ON THEM SELFS.IN A GOOD WAY.THATS WHAT YOU WANT.STEP THREE SET SOME KIND OF STANDARD FOR YOUSELF JUST DONT DO ANYTHING. DONT LET PEOPLE TREAT YOU ANY KIND OF WAY.THEY ONLY DO IT, BECAUSE THEY KNOW YOU HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM.REMEMBER YOU DONT NEED ANYONE,ESPECIALLY IF THEY DONT TREAT YOUR WITH RESPECT.CHOSE POSTIVE PEOPLE TO BE AROUND.FOLLOW THOSE THREE RULES AND YOUR ON YOUR WAY TO FINDING THATSELF ESTEEM IN YOU .